Romance is an important part of marriage. Couples should ensure to always keep the fire of romance alive in their marriage and relationships. Truth be told, marriage without romance is void of life.
Romantic relationships happen because of the hopes and dreams a couple has for a happy life together. The relationship will be pleasant and rewarding as long as you believe in what inspires those hopes and dreams. To keep a marriage romantic, nurture what makes your relationship worthwhile and wonderful.
Marriage has pleasures and rewards:
companionship, the approval or praise that your partner gives you, the
inspiration to be better, and physical gratification. There are pleasures and
there are problems. A few basic strategies can increase the pleasures and
lessen the problems.
Don't expect a perfect relationship.
Give each other some wiggle room - have some tolerance for the faults and
limitations that you both have. Don't stir up the bottom muck - being too
concerned with problems makes you pay less attention to what is good in the
relationship. Encouraging what is good about the relationship will, in general,
do more good than problem solving.
If you expect too much, it is more
difficult to feel good about the relationship. You will compare how the
relationship is to what you think it should be and you will be disappointed.
Love and happiness do not require perfection. Love happens when you believe
that both of you can continue to build a rewarding relationship.
Your attitude should signal the
other person that you will patiently work through each other's shortcomings.
Being tolerant and non-condemning is a challenge. But consciously making an
effort to be tolerant goes a long way.
Build Upon What Is Good --
Find activities that you both like
and do them together. Do something such as gardening, cooking, or charity
volunteering. Maybe start a project together such as landscaping or interior
decorating. Try a recreation activity such as hiking. You might want to spend
more time just talking. You could take more time for visiting friends and
having family get-together. Find areas of common interest. Pursue those
interests together. Be involved in each other's lives.
Share ideas to find ways to more
enjoy living. Tell your sweetheart about strategies you use for such things as
achieving goals and enjoying yourself. Tell each other about what you think is
interesting, what is worthwhile, and what is encouraging. If you share positive
ideas, you will think of each other as pleasant and enjoyable.
Encourage your partner to act and
make decisions. Both of you will be able to accomplish more with the other's
support and encouragement. When there is a disagreement, be patient. If you
need to criticize, offer an attractive alternative rather than a condemnation.
Your encouragement likely will produce more good results than will your
objections.
The good things in life are much
more important than the disappointments. Reward yourself and your partner for
the good in what you are doing. Treat yourself well. Remind yourself often of
what you and your partner are doing right.
Do everything to keep the fire of romance burning in your marriage. It will
take hard work and sacrifices. But do not hesitate to give in everything it
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