How to be a Responsible Man

By: Pastor Fola Odufuwa

We are the offspring of God. We resemble Him in every way because we have been made in His similitude. We bear His image as men and we are on earth as His representatives to reign in life. Two things are obvious from the passage. God’s plan for man can be summarized with the words: PURITY and PROSPERITY.


And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth. Gen.1:26

Our text contains the twin phrases: LET US and LET THEM. “Let us” refers to PURITY, while “Let them” relates to PROSPERITY.  God’s image has been engraved upon our hearts, if we are genuinely converted, but we are to operate our lives AFTER His likeness. The image is in the past but the likeness is in the here and now.

The image is complete but we are to manifest it by operating in the likeness of God. We are to live our lives like we are GOD ON EARTH. God has a role to play but you as well have work to do. What God will do, He will do. But what you are expected to do, God will not do for you.

So there is PURITY and there is PROSPERITY.  This two are directly linked together. 3 John 1:2 “Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.” Unlike the people of the world, the prosperity of believers is tied to the purity of their lives.


PURITY and PROSPERITY work hand in hand. You cannot have one without the other. Though the image has been engraved upon you at conversion by God, prosperity is a matter of choice – “let them”. What does “let them” mean? “Them” refers to male and female Adam (Gen 1:27). Dominion is for “them”, not devils, not angels, not Satan. Divine prosperity has been reserved for God’s kind of man.

But that man cannot go farther than the quality of his wife. Whether you will prosper in life is a direct function of your choice of marriage partner. Purity can be achieved alone, but true Christian prosperity is reserved for godly homes. Your wife can either make or mar your life. 
In order to prosper, God placed man “over all the earth” and made him responsible for everything that happens in the world. 

All the authority of the Godhead was vested in man so that he can become the master and ruler of the earth. God gave man a power backup to bind and loose and gave him power was over the sea, the air and the land. The earth has been given to man as a possession and he has been ordered to prosper in it as long as He can maintain the image of God. Let’s pursue the principle of PURITY and PROSPERITY in the life of Joseph.
The Two Dreams (Genesis 37:5-11)

Joseph’s dreams spoke of PROSPERITY (v. 7) and PURITY (vs. 9). He saw himself as a light that shines brighter than the sun, moon and all the stars put together - someone who shines with brilliant rays in the midst of gross darkness and perversion; someone whose light cannot be overwhelmed by the powers of the night. He also saw himself as a fruitful vine – someone whose prosperity covers the land and to whom other vines would naturally bow to.
Purity & Prosperity in the Life of Joseph 

In Gen 49:22-26, we see Joseph as a tree of life and as a warrior. We also see five dimensions of prosperity which he operated: (a) blessings of heaven above (divine favour and opportunity), (b) blessings of the deep (material blessings), (c) blessings of the breasts (marital blessing), (d) blessings of the womb (child-bearing, a godly family), and (e) blessings of the fathers (biological and spiritual generational blessings).

Why was the prosperity of Joseph dimensioned in this way? Because the prosperity of a believer goes beyond cash! It extends unto the “utmost bound of the everlasting hills”, that is the realm of things that money cannot buy. These blessings were however poured “on the crown of the head of him that was separate from his brethren”.


Attributes of Purity (Genesis 39:1-6; 37:1-6)
There are five qualities of purity that we read about in Joseph though we shall focus in this short discussion on only three. The first and most notable is:

1. Separation (Gen 49:26)

 At two levels by a divine encounter – first from unbelievers, and also from ungodly believers (1 Cor 5:11). An unbeliever is of no use to you. There should be no communion, no fellowship, no accord, no concord with the people of the world (2 Corinthians 6:14-18). We are to hate what they love and love what they hate. Indeed your life has to be the exact opposite of unbelievers. Joseph refused to be shaped by the pressure of the peers around him.

Besides being separate from Gentiles, he was also different from his elder brothers. In Gen 37:2 we read that “these are the generations of Jacob. Joseph, being seventeen years old…” Notice the full stop after Jacob in Gen 37:2. 10 elder brothers were bypassed and Jacob’s genealogy commenced with a very small boy who happened to be the 11th son. Why did God skip 10 generations to start with Joseph? Joseph did not indulge himself in the “evil” activities of his brothers.

He did not steal the father’s sheep. He did not carry over and continue the mistakes of his earthly father. Joseph did not carry over into his own life the evil genes of his elders; neither did he have any traces of the seed of profanity of his uncle Esau. He did not practice polygamy (Gen 41:43), unlike Jacob that had two wives and two concubines. He did not give birth endlessly to children he could not train (Gen 41:50-52), unlike his father to whom sons were born out of competition, strife and rivalry.

He was separate from his brothers who were fornicators, liars, and ruthless fellows. Reuben had problems with secret unconfessed sins. Simeon and Levi had problems with anger and cruelty. Judah had problems with sexual immorality. Joseph was different. Why? He separated himself from them all.

Though sinners enticed him, he consented not, even when they were his very brothers. People, believers, even ministers that were older and more accomplished in the faith - they could do anything, not Joseph. Joseph stood separate and replaced Reuben to become the GENERATION OF JACOB.

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 2. Integrity (dependability/trustworthiness) 
Joseph was honest, trustworthy and reliable (39:4), unlike his father who was a 419man, a cheat, a supplanter and a user of others. Joseph was dependable to Jacob in taking food to his brothers. He was trusted by Potiphar with his cheques book, entire business, household and properties. He was trusted by the keeper of the prison with ALL the prisoners. He was trusted by Pharaoh with the management of the national economy of Egypt – though he was a foreigner.
What is integrity? Integrity is the ability to say no when enticed to do wrong – “but he refused” (Gen 37:8). Are you soft with sin? Do you make excuses for your weaknesses? Oh, beloved brother, can you be trusted with anything? Until a man conquers his lust for wealth, women and the world, he can have no integrity with which to serve God and men faithfully. Read what Joseph said to Potiphar’s wife and learn integrity.
3. Divine Presence:
The common report about Joseph was that “the Lord was with him”. He was the father’s boy, “the son of his old age”, and he, at a very tender age, settled the matter of who owned his life. He cultivated a daily relationship with God and practiced the fear of God – even though there was no church or fellowship to attend in Egypt. 
No wonder Pharaoh screamed, “Can we find such a one as this is, a man in whom the Spirit of God is?” (Gen 41:38). A man who has no lively relationship with God is utterly useless to the world. Without the fear of God, you will regularly fall into sin - you too will do anything. The presence of the Lord creates a sin-free zone around your life. Praise God! 
Attributes of Prosperity
Again, there are up to seven qualities in Joseph that made him prosperous, but let’s just focus on three because of time.
1.Diligence
Notice that Joseph was never idle. In Genesis 37:3, we read that “the LORD made all that he did to prosper in his hand.” Same phrase again in verse 4: “and all that he had he put into his hand.” Even after he was made Prime Minister, Joseph was busy. Gen 41:46 “And Joseph was thirty years old when he stood before Pharaoh king of Egypt. And Joseph went out from the presence of Pharaoh, and went throughout all the land of Egypt.”
If you are going to prosper, there has to be something in your hands. God has no use for lazy people and you must stop making excuses for your failures or poverty. Prov 22:13 “The slothful man saith, there is a lion without, I shall be slain in the streets.” Eph 4:28 “Let him that stole steal no more: but rather let him labour, working with his hands the thing which is good, that he may have to give to him that needeth.” May I ask you like the Lord asked Moses, “What is that in thine hand?”(Ex 4:2).

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2.Grace 
What is grace? Gen 49:24 “But his bow abode in strength, and the arms of his hands were made strong by the hands of the mighty God of Jacob; (from thence is the shepherd, the stone of Israel).” Though there was a bow in Joseph’s hand with which he was to fire arrows at divine targets, he could never had achieved except for the fact that those feeble hands were made strong by the hands of the mighty God. That is grace. Your hands in God’s hands helping you to do far much more than you ordinarily can by your own power.
3.Wisdom (discretion/inspiration/gifts/skills)
Joseph had wisdom or the ability to know what to do at any given time by revelation and divine inspiration. Everyone who came into contact with him recognized the wisdom of God in his life. Just look at the way he handled his brothers when they got to Egypt. He managed economic crisis with a wisdom he did not learn at any business school. He was a solid problem-solver who lost no battle.

Let’s stop at this point. As we pray this evening, may I ask you to commit yourself to a lifetime of PURITY and PROSPERITY. This is God’s plan for you. You are a leader not a follower. You are a ruler not a subject; a victor not a victim; a champion not a loser; a lender not a borrower; a head not a tail. Are you ready to enter into God’s will for your life?  Let us pray.


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